4.19.2008

Granda Cutcher's 90th Birthday!

Last weekend we made a quick trip to Michigan to go to Dale's maternal grandmother's 90th birthday party! It was a huge success--everybody was there! Dale took some photos to commemorate the occasion.

Dale's grandmothers! Grandma Cutcher and Grandma Murray (his mom's mom and his dad's mom). It was sweet of Grandma Murray to come to the party; Dale was excited to have both his grannies in one place.

Grandma Cutcher's brood: (top) Beverly, Donnie, Genevieve, Jackie, John, (bottom) Darlene, and Grandma Cutcher.

Grandma's portrait for the local paper...

Lauren (our niece, for those that don't know) and Grandma.

Grandma Cutcher and her sister.

To see all of the pictures that Dale took, check out our gallery by clicking here.

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2.14.2008

Repurposed Speaker Cabinet!

Dale's dad found a new purpose for Dale's old speaker cabinet! We have one that's currently being used as a plant stand but this takes it to another level! He calls it his "Urei Cat House" and the email he sent to Dale explaining the amazing transformation is below...


From Wayne: "Done!!! Painted the inside "Hunter Green", made a shelf, got some scrap carpet from Sam [a neighbor) but had to buy a 12' length of transition strip to hold the carpet in place. I tried carpet tape but the carpet was too stiff and kept pulling loose. I would think the cats will think they have died and gone to heaven, we'll see. I know this, the cats won't knock the thing over. It must weigh in at 30+ pounds."

Dale and I think it's pretty nifty; we're tempted to make one for our kitties!

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2.11.2008

Dale’s Speaker Project

A post from Dale:

I have had the below set of speakers for about 16 years and though these 20+ year old speakers are not exactly attractive, I absolutely love the sound and it would cost an absurd amount of money to replace them. Why? Because I am NUTS!

So, like most men, I prefer function over style so the big ugly boxes did not bother me much until Rebecca noted they were an obvious eyesore. She reminded me of this OFTEN – and I realized I had to do something about them.

I launched a scheme to wrap the original black boxes in new wood in an effort to make them more attractive. It did not take long for my nutty mind to decide I needed to build brand new cabinets out of walnut and take what was supposed to be an easy project and create a major endeavor over the Christmas holiday.

I managed to get Dad to agree to all of this – I think he just might be a little nuttier than I am; thankfully it did not take a whole lot of convincing, honestly. He is a pretty easy mark, sometimes.

View below exhibit A, the 24-year-old ugly black box:

Following are a few shots of Dear Ol' Dad working his hide off on yet another one of my projects. Thankfully he has not charged me for glue and fasteners over the years or I would be in the poor house.

Think we have enough clamps on it? Honestly I think we could have used a few more of them but we made do.

Here is 50% of the finished project – sans the finish. The other one was in the confines of about 10 clamps allowing the glue to dry. Pretty darn hot looking if you ask me.

Yeah, about the finish; Dear Ol' Dad left me to fend for myself in that regard – I must be losing my touch with him. Actually, he is smarter than I give him credit for because finishing these SOB's was a lot more work than I had originally imagined they would be, which is usually the case.

Here they are on the dining room table – note the subtle orange wall in the background – waiting for the walnut banding to cover the plywood edge.

Test fitting the banding before permanently attaching it.

Now here they are really coming together, each cabinet has a couple coats of Danish Oil to really bring out walnut figuring. This is what I had in mind when I selected this wood – great looking grain and a deep warm color. It is just a shame that I will be covering the front of these with fabric.

After getting three coats of hand rub polyurethane on them it was time to take them for a test drive; I am pleased they sound and look better than ever.

Here they are completed with vintage fabric fronts. As mentioned above, my goal was to get these to better fit with our mid-century modern style and I think I have successfully done so. In fact, a coworker saw this picture on my computer and asked, "What's with those old speakers?"

I honestly think this past Christmas has been one of the best; I got to spend a ton of time with my dad doing something we both love – working with wood - and I will be able to see and use these speakers everyday for years to come. Nothing beats the pride of accomplishment.

Of course, working on speakers was not the only thing I did over the holiday; I also managed to whip my mother in a few games of scrabble, which rarely happens. No doubt she is chomping at the bit to reestablish her dominance on the scrabble table.

Nothing beats doing what you love with people you love.

Now I wonder what project I can sucker my dad into next year...

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2.09.2008

Cousin Chuck Visits...

My cousin Chuck stopped in for a visit recently with his boyfriend Travis. Chuck is taking a photography class and Dale was nice enough to show off all his camera equipment.

And this is Chuck's roommate Mander or "Mandy". Our cat Sidney decided Mandy had a good lap for napping. Mandy has a place just the next town over, in River Forest. When they come to town, they occasionally meet up with us. Great to see them!

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2.03.2008

Wayne Bowls 800 Series

Dale's dad reached a personal best recently and got a write-up in the Flint Journal!

You can see the article on Wayne's (Dale's brother, not his father) blog by clicking here.

Pair roll 800 series in same league on same lanes

GENESEE COUNTY
THE FLINT JOURNAL FIRST EDITION
Sunday, February 03, 2008 Journal Sports Writer

...Cox, who surpassed a previous high of 767, connected on the same pair of lanes (7-8) where a few weeks earlier he'd watched Wayne Murray reach two personal milestones in the same league.

Murray, bowling for Monogramming by Martha, followed a 300 opening game with scores of 226 and 279 for 805.

The perfect game was a first for Murray while the series exceeded a previous high of 803 set last season in the Duane Clinton Senior Classic at Galaxy.

His 29-strike performance made the Grand Blanc resident one of only a few area bowlers to boast multiple 800 series in Flint Senior Bowling Association leagues.

"I think this one was more satisfying than the other 800 since I had to come off a 300 start and stay focused for the next two games," Murray said.

"I didn't want to do what I have seen happen so many times when a guy starts the day with a perfect game. He loses his focus or gets too caught up in the moment or something and crashes."

Although delighted to have recorded a career high, Murray believes his series should have been higher. He did not miss the strike pocket and left only single pin spares.

"In the second game I rolled the ball as well as the first game," Murray said.

"You begin to wonder, 'Am I doing something different?' It's funny how things happen and how luck plays in scoring."

The 300 game completed for Murray his "big five" of accomplishments on the bowling lanes and golf course.

In golf he has recorded the rarest of shots, a double eagle, while also having made a hole-in-one and eagle.

His double eagle came at Willowbrook Golf Course in Byron.

"It was 20 years ago, a blind shot with a two-iron with a lot of luck from about 220 yards," Murray said...

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1.04.2008

More Christmas Photos...

Dale finally gave me the pictures he took at Christmas. More family pics below...

I took this one--Dale and his Grandma Murray on Christmas Eve.

Grandma Murray helping Ian with his new keyboard.

Ian unwrapping an exciting present.

On Christmas morning we went to Wayne & Lisa's to play with kids. Lauren kicked my butt while playing Operation!

For dinner we went to my Uncle Randy & Aunt Diane's. Here's a picture of my cousin Randy with his boys, Jack & Colton.

Jack & Colton playing with my Aunt Diane's mom in the background.

Our last stop was to stop in and see Melissa & Matthew, our niece and nephew from Dale's stepbrother, Tim.

Melissa and her very pretty long-haired kitty!

This is Bruno, Dale's mom's dog. He's a beauty! And was very affectionate and excited to have company.

Dale's mom asked for a new Better Homes & Gardens cookbook for Christmas. She said her old one was "worn out"--she was NOT joking!

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12.11.2007

Dale's brother Wayne & family visit!


Wayne & Lisa and their kids, Lauren & Ian came to visit last weekend! The kids were fond of our very friendly and indulgent kitties. Witness the Sidney pass-off! Here is being held by Ian.

And by Lauren!

During the weekend, we spent some time on Michigan Ave. and stopped in at the Lego store. The kids with Lego Santa.

They enjoyed the wacky display at the Hancock Building (as did I).

We spent Saturday at Shedd Aquarium & Oceanarium. We caught the dolphin show in front of Lake Michigan. Neat!

We wore the kids right out!

I was very excited about this freaky fish. I made Dale take a picture.

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11.13.2007

Thank You...

Mom's memorial service was on Sunday afternoon and I just want to thank everyone who came to the service, called, or wrote to express their condolences.

Whenever I feel bad about my mom's death, I will think about all the family and friends that came to support us, share their grief with us, and most importantly, to share their good memories of my mom. I will take comfort in that for a very long time.

It was truly overwhelming to know how many people cared about my mom and our family.

Thank you!

Rebecca

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11.09.2007

Mom's Memorial Service Information

Some folks have asked so I thought I should give an update to all about the memorial service:

My mom's memorial service will be in Flint, Michigan, on Sunday.

There will be a visitation from 3-4 p.m. at Plumb-Smith Funeral Home, followed by a short memorial service. My mom was cremated. I will have a photo album and some pictures there so people can remember has when she was healthy and happy.

Plumb-Smith Funeral Home
maps.google.com
1208 North Ballenger Highway
Flint, MI 48504
(810) 238-7657

There will be a late lunch at the Burton Eagles club; my aunts and Dale's mom (and her sister) are making dishes to pass.

Burton Eagles -
3317 E Bristol Rd.
Burton, MI
(810) 742-1020


Thanks for being such good friends to us.

Love,

Rebecca & Dale

We've put some pictures of mom and family online if anyone is interested: Gallery!

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11.08.2007

Sad news...


Sorry I haven't updated sooner but my mom passed away on Saturday morning. It happened very peacefully at the hospital. I spent the day with her on Friday and that meant a lot to me.

Mom was cremated this morning and my stepdad, Gary, is bring her cremains to Michigan tonight. There will be a memorial service on Sunday afternoon. I'll update this post when I have more specific information.

The above photo is my mom on her 50th birthday, just eight years ago!

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11.01.2007

Rebecca's Mom...

My mom is being transitioned from hospital care to hospice care today. She may or may not make it home as she is very sick. Her body has stopped responding to dialysis and is shutting down. Dale and I are in Memphis to see my mom and offer some support to my stepdad, Gary.

I wanted to post the above picture to remind us all of happier times.

I truly appreciate the love and support of family and friends and I look forward to touching base with all of you once we have seen my mom off with dignity and love.

Thank you.

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5.18.2007

UPDATE on Rebecca's Mom

Thanks so much to everyone who checked in to see how my mom was doing. She got out of the hospital yesterday and is still weak but much improved.

She had an infection coupled with sleep deprivation that had her a bit delusional! Freaky but now she's home and just exhausted. Poor thing just wants to sleep (and eat--her appetite is back, thank goodness).

Again, thanks SO MUCH to everyone who wrote/called. We appreciate it very much!

We took a quick trip down to Memphis to see her last weekend. We'll post pictures of the things we saw along the way this weekend.

Love you all!

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5.05.2007

Mom Is Sick; Think Happy Thoughts

My (Rebecca's) mom is in the hospital down in Memphis. We're considering heading down there, just waiting on word from my stepdad. Please send any positive vibes/prayers/well wishes her way.

Thanks.

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1.06.2007

Christmas with the Kids

We were very happy to get to spend some time with the family and on Dale's side our niece and nephew--Ian and Lauren--were a lot of fun to spend time with on Christmas morning.

Lauren got a guitar, new outfit, earmuffs and a slinky for Christmas. All pictured here! Hee! I love teh slinky on her feet. Cracked me up!

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11.29.2006

Thanksgiving Weekend

Over Thanksgiving weekend, we went to Memphis to visit family. Dale loves ribs more than anything else--even Thanksgiving dinner! On Saturday night, he finally got his BBQ Pork!

Gary & Mom selecting their preferred BBQ item. Gary had ribs; mom the pulled pork.

Sarah and Chris--they both had ribs!

Dale got his ribs! Isn't he happy!? He also smeared BBQ on his face. He was very enthused!

Gary liked his ribs, too!

Ribs! And onion rings. Delish!

The carnage...

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11.02.2006

Flashback--August!

Dale's mom came to visit back in August! We went downtown and dragged her all over the place!

Jackie got her first taste of Chicago, Oak Park and the train.


Dale took this lovely photo on the train during his mom's trip.
I really like it and wanted to share it.

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